Excerpts from life lessons
Love is state of mind, in which we don't experience fear, worries, or desires. Love makes us responsible, emphatic, and devotional. Because it's not driven by desires, love bring happiness in moments and stay forever within us.
When a person loves another person unconditionally and unexpectedly, then that person will equally admire all colours of their personality. Because in love, people experience only love from their all senses, mind, and intellectuals. Love makes people peaceful, cheerful, and a wonderful human being.
When people learn to perform their duties without expectation and condition, then they experience love all around them. That's the universal principle of Karma, which is also explained by Buddha and Krishna.
LOVE AND INFATUATION
The work done by identifying oneself as a personality in which man neither desires result nor is affected by the ease or difficulty of work.
PEOPLE SAY A LOT OF THINGS BUT MEANS ONLY A FEW
The difference between people's words and their actions, represent their fear of unfulfilled desires. Everything in this outer universe is temporary, and peoples know that. That's why when people seek happiness (or things/act that drives happiness) in outer universe, they put all efforts (words/act) to grab and retain that pleasure. When they didn't feel that happiness anymore, or see it under risks, then they tends to remove all hurdles (including their words, action, and even believes) to restore their happiness. That's why people's words never aligned with their actions.
Everyone enters or leaves our life for the purpose of teaching us something or the other. Which helps us determine what we really want in our life and what not. Though it hurts badly, but only through similar experiences do we come to know the truth of life, we learn and try to avoid such mistakes again. Such experiences make us aware of who we really are and by focusing on where in life we can continuously experience blissful moments. Well this is the life, let it be like that. I always learn from life's experiences, and forget all those people and their behavior, because of which I felt the bitterness of life. With this practice, not only do I get better quickly but I can easily focus on my happiness and peace.
To feel fresh and energetic, practice this daily:-
- Forgive yourself for all past experiences.
- Forgive everyone who caused that experience.
- Remember how you went through those moments, remember your strength, remember why you did not give up.
- Now remember all the happy moments of your life. Remember how cheerful and fearless you are.
- Now try to know with an unbiased view why the incident happened to you? Like you are watching a movie scene.
- Now forgive everyone and forget everything. Just remember this lesson, your strength and your delightful moments.
Fearlessly whatever you experience in your delightful moments is the real you.
You are a human being before any social identity. That is why, like every human, you also have every right to enjoy and experience every way of life. And in no way do you need the approval or support of any other person to lead your life in this way. You are self sufficient and you also have enough resources to make this life. What is received is sufficient. In the life so far, you have covered a long distance and have performed very well. Now we have to go even further and perform even better.
P.S. Never lose your goodness for someone else's bad behavior. Because our good behavior defines us and their bad behavior reveals their reality. Never forget that your goodness is not your weakness but your strength, which has made you fit to face this difficult situation and helped you get out of this situation.
STARTING SOMETHING NEW
THE RIGHT PERSON
Humans love only thyself. When we experience our own existence (or values) in something else (it could be person, place, or activity), we feel attracted towards that thing, and put all efforts to chase, grab, and retain it. Due to our upbirthing norms and society's where we were born, live, and grow, we recognise ourself as body, social identity, behaviour, and have learnt to use everything around us as a medium to experience thyself (someone who accept us with all flaws & virtues, understand us, never leaves us, motivate and protect us, and in who's company we experience peace, fearlessness, and eternal love). Yes, we are what we are looking for everywhere. Only we are that right person.